10. Paulak Unea
a. A week after the traditional feast and the woman lives with her husband, the man, the minimum bridegroom with his wife, goes to his in-laws home to express his gratitude for the marriage well, especially the bride's goodness in her bachelor (this event is more legal aspect related to the sanctity of the woman until she entered in marriage).
b. After finishing the show paulak une, paranak return to his hometown / home and then start a new life.
11. Manjae
After a while the bride and groom live a married life (if the man is not the youngest), then he will dipajae, which is separated house (residence) and livelihood. Usually the youngest child inherits the house of his parents.
12. Stair Maningkir (read: manikkir ladder)
After the bride manjae or stay in their home, the parents and the bride's family come to visit their home, and held a meal together.
Thus the marriage arrangement in Batak custom called adat na gok, but lately not all this sequence is done as before, especially the Batak people are monitored. Some have been made to be more simple, there are also some that combined implementation. Thanks. Regards.
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