Complicated Marriage of the Batak Part 2 | Tour Medan

Here is the custom in the marriage of Batak called adat na gok marriage Batak people:

1. Mangarisika / Perekenalan and engaged.

In this case the man visits an unofficial visit to a woman's house in the framework of explorations or introductions of the male family to the woman's parents, usually sent two or three men from the men. If the woman is open to accept the proposal then the parents of men give a sign of love (sign holong and the woman to give the sign of the eye) in the form of cloth, gold ring, and others.

2. Marhori-hori Wall / Marhusip

Marhusip (Indo: whisper), marhusip not in the sense that the men and the women whisper. However, the conversation between the two parties proposing and the proposed, limited in relation of nearest relatives and not yet known by the public. This stage is a continuation of mangarisika, namely the show host between parents and relatives of men to parents and relatives of women.

However, lately Marhori hori Walls event has been a little deviated from the actual where this event is not just exploring again but has been directly discussed the main points such as how much the value of Mas Kawin / sinamot that will be given the man to the woman, where the party Marriage, but this talk is not yet official.